2) Do others tell you your moods seem to change a lot? *

Yes

No

3) Do you often have days when your mood seems to rapidly shift from feeling "normal" or at your baseline to feeling irritable/agitated, depressed, anxious or angry? *

Yes

No

1) Would you describe yourself as often feeling empty? *

Yes

No

4) Have you made desperate efforts to avoid feeling or being abandoned? *

Yes

No

5) With certain people do you sometimes switch pretty extremely from loving or respecting them at times to despising them at other times? *

Yes

No

6) Do your relationships with friends and partners tend to be intense with a lot of ups and downs? *

Yes

No

7) Do you sometimes feel like you're not even yourself or that you're evil? *

Yes

No

8) Have you ever been so upset that you... *

told someone you wanted to hurt or kill yourself?

made a suicide attempt, even if it wasn't very serious or you didn't want to die?

I have never attempted or threatened suicide because someone else made me so upset.

9) Do you find yourself acting impulsively at times and in ways that are potentially self-damaging? *

Yes

No

10) Do you oftentimes feel angry without knowing why? *

Yes

No

11) Do you tend to get physical and throw things or get into fights? *

Yes

No

12) Do you give people the cold shoulder and hold grudges for a long time? *

Yes

No

13) *

Rate each item by how closely it describes your general demeanor or personality, especially since adulthood:

Excessive fixation with list, rules, details or general organization.

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Perfectionist, even to the point of difficulty finishing a task because my standards tend to be so strict.

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Excessively devoted to work, even to the detriment of leisure and relationships.

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Overconscientious or rigid when it comes to morals, ethics, or values.

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Unable to get rid of worthless items, even when their not sentimental.

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Reluctant to delegate tasks unless others perform the tasks exactly as asked.

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Frugal and maybe less than generous, needing to prepare for potentially more important things or catastrophes.

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Generally run short on time, especially leaving most important tasks until the last minute.

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Hobbies and activities are great, if done well and according to the rules.

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Irritated by others needing to be creative about simple tasks that need to get done, like washing dishing for example.

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Stubborn, even when it's in my interest to compromise, it's "the principle that matters".

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Control = calm. Lack of control = panic

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

14) Do you feel somewhat lost when you're alone due to self-doubts or fears about not being able to care for yourself? *

Yes

No

15) When a close relationship ends, do you feel desperate to quickly find another, even if it might not be the best relationship for you? *

Yes

No

16) When making decisions: *

Do you often look for reassurance or advice in every day decisions like what to eat or what clothes to buy?

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Is it difficult for you to make these kinds of decisions on your own?

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Do you tend to end up in situations where someone else is making an important life decision for you (ex. what job to take or who to be friends with)?

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Is it hard for you to express a different opinion with someone you're close to?

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

Do you often pretend to agree with someone so he/she won't reject you or dislike you?

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

17) Have others commented to you that... *

you are a really emotionally expressive person

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

you are too dramatic

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

your emotions seem shallow, or maybe not very sincere

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

you are "flirty" or "inviting", or people often misinterpreted your behavior as such

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

18) Are you pretty good at getting people to do what you want? *

Yes

No

19) Is it hard for you to really understand what someone else is going through? *

Yes

No

20) Have other people complained that you aren't very sympathetic to their problems? *

Yes

No

21) Do you often feel hurt because people don't give you the praise and admiration you feel you deserve? *

Yes

No

22) Have people told you that you have too high an opinion of yourself? *

Yes

No